Laid-back bar showcasing original cocktails, plus sandwiches, seafood bites & familiar snacks.
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Address: 468 25th St, Oakland, CA 94612
Phone: (510) 918-5245
Website: http://friendsandfamilybar.com/
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Reviews
Júlia P
Really cute place and really friendly staff! I love that all the tables have crayons and paper place mats and thought it was fun everyone was drawing, even the adults. The food and cocktails were good, portions are really small so I’d suggest getting a bunch of things to share.
… moreJake Byman
We really enjoyed our group dinner at Friends and Family. We got a bunch of items to split, which made a lot of sense for our party size. I really enjoyed several of the items, including the rice cakes, the eggs, the wings, and more. The cocktails were also quite solid – we each tried each others, and most of them were very good, with some misses.
Overall good experience here!
… moreOverall good experience here!
Camilo Dolorier
Vibe is so cute and sexy and everyone is soooo nice and attentive but I ordered the wrong things so it’s on me, but the Sophia Loren (drink with the little yellow flower) is amazing, the other two were not to my liking, and I feel like the popcorn could’ve been warm/hot? The shishito peppers were delish. Going back for sure and asking for the servers faves
UPDATE:
The olives are delicious, the clams (according to my sister) were amazing, and the drink with mezcal in it was bomb. Delicious NA drink too All the servers are soooo nice yet again!
… moreUPDATE:
The olives are delicious, the clams (according to my sister) were amazing, and the drink with mezcal in it was bomb. Delicious NA drink too All the servers are soooo nice yet again!
L
I enjoyed my evening at this cozy spot, the lighting and the staff were warm and welcoming.
I started with a For Rei, which was exactly what I was hoping for- a fresh balance of coffee, herbs, and coconut. Any of those flavors could have been overwhelming but they complemented each other so well.
Our favorite dish was the Rice Cakes, the chewy little buds bathed in a savory broth with fresh basil and corn.
… moreI started with a For Rei, which was exactly what I was hoping for- a fresh balance of coffee, herbs, and coconut. Any of those flavors could have been overwhelming but they complemented each other so well.
Our favorite dish was the Rice Cakes, the chewy little buds bathed in a savory broth with fresh basil and corn.
Samantha Good
Cocktails were creative, delicious and executed in an artsy way. The vibe was bohemian hipster and very inclusive and friendly. Much cooler than the hippest spot in Brooklyn! We tried most of the menu including the special Wednesday night wings.
… moreMatty Easton
Whoever designed the logo deserves a big ole raise — I mean, how cute (and clever) is that?!
This spot has a relaxed and creative atmosphere and was the perfect place to grab drinks with old friends. It had some delicious mocktail options and a chill, queer-friendly vibe (for example, the menu politely asks for all staff to be referred to in the gender-neutral. Love this!)
The service was friendly and not pushy or overbearing. The lighting was dim and romantic and had a back patio for those wishing for a bit of fresh air.
The one caution I will raise is that it can be kind of hard to find — there is no sign at the front of the building! Be prepared to follow Google Maps precisely, or risk spending a few minutes wandering the alleyway (like I did). However, the low-key entrance seemed to add to the mystique and underground vibe of this hidden gem, and I kinda liked it!
Whether you need a romantic first-date cocktail bar or a spot to meet friends before a night out in Oakland, Friends and Family is the perfect place to go.
… moreThis spot has a relaxed and creative atmosphere and was the perfect place to grab drinks with old friends. It had some delicious mocktail options and a chill, queer-friendly vibe (for example, the menu politely asks for all staff to be referred to in the gender-neutral. Love this!)
The service was friendly and not pushy or overbearing. The lighting was dim and romantic and had a back patio for those wishing for a bit of fresh air.
The one caution I will raise is that it can be kind of hard to find — there is no sign at the front of the building! Be prepared to follow Google Maps precisely, or risk spending a few minutes wandering the alleyway (like I did). However, the low-key entrance seemed to add to the mystique and underground vibe of this hidden gem, and I kinda liked it!
Whether you need a romantic first-date cocktail bar or a spot to meet friends before a night out in Oakland, Friends and Family is the perfect place to go.
Eugene Chen
An inclusive space for everyone.
Great cocktails and food/snacks.
Awesome vibe, friendly staff, and cool space.
Parking can be challenging.
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We went to Friends and Family after reading about it in the SF Chronicle and Resy. Navigating the area and parking was difficult on a weeknight, but we were able to find street parking near the bar after circling around for ~10 minutes.
I appreciate the mission statement of providing a safe space where everyone is welcome. The space is full of thoughtful details, and the outdoor space looks amazing with the mural. The pink lighting, the tableware, and the warm and friendly staff really make the place intimate, welcoming, and personal. I really felt like I was being taken care of in a way that’s so rare nowadays.
I asked for a recommendation for spirit-forward drinks, and was delighted by both the “for rei” (and “the colette.” “For rei” came with a block of coconut water ice, which I popped into my water after finishing the tasty cocktail way faster than I should. It reminded me of a cocktail from another place in SF, but it differentiates with its coffee flavor. Friends and Family also offer a “Daily Affirmations” mystery drink, which benefits gender-affirming care fundraising. It was a nice strawberry-flavored drink that particular night.
The Asian-influenced food also shines at Friends and Family. The hot-and-sour mushrooms pairs with the drinks nicely with its assertive flavor. The “les eggs” was a genuine surprise with its creamy yet refreshing sauce. We also had the yaki onigiri (grilled little rice balls) and the sardine banh mi toast. The tune miso was definitely interesting and an umami bomb. Overall, the dishes are on the salty side.
If I can use a single word to describe my memory of Friends and Family, it would be “warmth.”
… moreGreat cocktails and food/snacks.
Awesome vibe, friendly staff, and cool space.
Parking can be challenging.
—
We went to Friends and Family after reading about it in the SF Chronicle and Resy. Navigating the area and parking was difficult on a weeknight, but we were able to find street parking near the bar after circling around for ~10 minutes.
I appreciate the mission statement of providing a safe space where everyone is welcome. The space is full of thoughtful details, and the outdoor space looks amazing with the mural. The pink lighting, the tableware, and the warm and friendly staff really make the place intimate, welcoming, and personal. I really felt like I was being taken care of in a way that’s so rare nowadays.
I asked for a recommendation for spirit-forward drinks, and was delighted by both the “for rei” (and “the colette.” “For rei” came with a block of coconut water ice, which I popped into my water after finishing the tasty cocktail way faster than I should. It reminded me of a cocktail from another place in SF, but it differentiates with its coffee flavor. Friends and Family also offer a “Daily Affirmations” mystery drink, which benefits gender-affirming care fundraising. It was a nice strawberry-flavored drink that particular night.
The Asian-influenced food also shines at Friends and Family. The hot-and-sour mushrooms pairs with the drinks nicely with its assertive flavor. The “les eggs” was a genuine surprise with its creamy yet refreshing sauce. We also had the yaki onigiri (grilled little rice balls) and the sardine banh mi toast. The tune miso was definitely interesting and an umami bomb. Overall, the dishes are on the salty side.
If I can use a single word to describe my memory of Friends and Family, it would be “warmth.”
Kaitlyn Cooper
What a special treat to experience a space that is not only curated with thoughtful details but also mouth-watering delicious cocktails & bites. We were happy to have a reservation as it was a full house, and our server Rosie was so kind & knowledgeable on the entire menu! They gave the best recommendations on cocktail pairings and were very attentive, thank you for such incredible hospitality! The owner Blake stopped by our table to say hi and made us feel at home. Friends & Family is a gem & one of our favorite spots!!! Excited to go back
… moreAlexandria Maisoka
Awesome bar, great food & drink program. A Queer safe haven and a trusty standby. The bartenders are beautiful and fun. They host events like industry night family meals where service workers can come eat, Queer Speed Dating, and Story time.
… moreEmilie Sark
A must visit every time I’m in Oakland.
Stopped by before a concert at the Fox on a Monday night. There were lots of open seats, love their back patio. They have heaters but it was warm enough without them. We ordered at the bar and our drinks and food were brought to our table.
The happy hour (5-7 pm) cocktail was a mezcal spritz ($7), it was the perfect refreshing yet smoky cocktail for a warm night in the bay.
I love the menu here, we shared the radishes w/ aioli and added sardines. Love the way the radishes were served with the stems on, we felt like bunnies . We also shared the melon and prosciutto which is a MUST have. The chili oil on it was perfect. They were out of the carrot cake , but settled for some popcorn and the beer + mezcal coffee shot happy hour drink ($7) for dessert.
This space also has books, cards, and crayons to draw on the table cloth. A great spot to check out in Oakland, worth making a trip from the city!
… moreStopped by before a concert at the Fox on a Monday night. There were lots of open seats, love their back patio. They have heaters but it was warm enough without them. We ordered at the bar and our drinks and food were brought to our table.
The happy hour (5-7 pm) cocktail was a mezcal spritz ($7), it was the perfect refreshing yet smoky cocktail for a warm night in the bay.
I love the menu here, we shared the radishes w/ aioli and added sardines. Love the way the radishes were served with the stems on, we felt like bunnies . We also shared the melon and prosciutto which is a MUST have. The chili oil on it was perfect. They were out of the carrot cake , but settled for some popcorn and the beer + mezcal coffee shot happy hour drink ($7) for dessert.
This space also has books, cards, and crayons to draw on the table cloth. A great spot to check out in Oakland, worth making a trip from the city!